Gay BDSM

Gay BDSM is certainly on the increase within the gay community. More and more gay men are enjoying the fun and pleasure of being involved in BDSM. Sometimes the BDSM may just be a thing between two men in a gay relationship. At other times there may be a gay BDSM group in the area. If your interested in getting involved in a gay BDSM group in your area, it might be a good idea to join a gay personals website.

BDSM is often a lot of fun for gay couples. If you and your partner are not experiencing the pleasures of BDSm, then it might be a good idea to talk about it. If you are getting involved in gay bdsm, make sure to start off slow and build from there. Always practise safe bdsm techniques and use safe words.

It is common in Gay Culture for those involved to use terms to describe a certain characteristic in certain gay men. These terms are often popular in the gay clubs.

One such term is Twink. It refers to a gay man in his early 20`s who has a slender build with little or no body hair. It may be said that Twink is the opposite of Bear. There is also a twink code that uses a set of symbols for describing and rating of other twinks.

Bear is term within Gay culture that refers to members of a subculture within the male Gay community. Bears tend to be muscular, heavy set and often have body and facial hair. They often project an image of rugged masculinity. With that said, there is still no clear definition of what is a Bear and there is still much debate on the term. Some Bears have formed their own Bear clubs that follow certain rules.


Bear Terms

Chaser : A man who likes overweight men.

Chub : Heavy set gay man.

Daddy Bear : Older Bear.

Goldilocks : Female in the company of bears.

Koala Bear : Australian Bear.

Otter : Hairy man, but not large.

Panda Bear : Asian Bear.

Polar Bear : Grey or white-hair.

Wolf : Muscle Bear who is a rugged.

The term Stud in Gay culture refers to a man who has a very attractive face and well defined body. In Gay culture a Stud is also usually a Top. Stud Gay men are also usually well hung.

A Chub is a term used in Gay culture to describe an overweight gay man. It is sometimes referred to as Chubby Culture. There are clubs, social and community events that specifically cater to the Chub Gay culture.

Gay Beat
A term beat that is used to describe an area frequented by gay men.

Friend of Dorothy
In Gay talk, a "friend of Dorothy" is a term for a gay man that was used back around the 1940 to 1980 period when homosexual acts were illegal in the United States. Stating that, or asking if, someone was a "friend of Dorothy" was a way for Gay people to identify themselves to other Gay people.

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