BDSM Poly Household

These days there are many people involved in both the BDSM lifestyle and poly relationships. So it is a natural step for many of them to set up a BDSM Poly Household. Setting up the poly household for those involved in BDSM is a great idea. The advantage of this is living both the poly lifestyle and BDSM lifestyle together with others who share the same feelings.

Often a BDSM poly household will involve a Female dominant along with several submissives or slaves. Sometimes it can be a Master with several submissive or slaves as part of a BDSM poly household. Or sometimes a Mistress and Master couple with several submissives and slaves all living together in the BDSM poly household.

In the BDSM lifestyle, there are numerous arrangements that couples and even larger groups of people can enter into to fulfill their desires and needs. One of the more complex, more complicated arrangements is the Female Led Poly Household situation where there are multiple Dominant women and multiple submissive men (or any combination thereof), and they practice their BDSM lifestyle choices together in various ways. Poly households require a lot of communication to ensure that everyone knows their role and stays within the accepted boundaries. Without open and honest communication, problems of jealousy and emotional friction can occur. But for those that wish to engage in a Poly household, the situation can bring great fulfillment.

Establishing the rules in the Poly home is key. In an Female Led Poly home, all females are Dominant, and they all retain absolute control over the submissive males. Some Poly homes have a one­to­one ratio, and each Domme has their own individual slave. Each slave must respect and submit to the will of each of the Dommes, but emotionally they are only tied to their own Mistress. For other Poly homes the ratios are different with more slaves than Mistresses, and any submissive might partner with any Dominant based on her desires. In these homes there are usually Alpha Dominants and Alpha submissives that create a pecking order among each group, but for the most part everyone shares, and multiple scenarios of BDSM play can occur with different pairings or groups of people. But no matter what the particular arrangement is, the number one rule in any Poly home is that the submissive males always obey any woman in the household without question.

Poly homes are excellent tools for Dominant women that may not have fully embraced their power. It allows them to be with other Dommes and learn how to properly train slaves. A less experienced Domme can participate in scenes with more experienced, more powerful Dominant women and learn how to harness their own power. For slaves, it can be a chance for them to find the support of other males that also desire being controlled, and it can give them a supportive community that understands their needs. Poly homes can also give these folks that are newer to the BDSM lifestyle a place to fully realize and explore their desires in a safe, supportive place with other people in the lifestyle that can answer their questions and give them guidance and reassurance.

Another positive aspect of Poly homes is the openness of the BDSM interactions. Play scenes, fantasies, training, spanking, and any other BDSM activities are encouraged openly within the household, and everyone understands and respects the power of the desires they feel for this type of kink. Many scenes that are not possible with just a single BDSM couple become reality in a Poly home, and it can become a place where any desire can be realized. It can also allow Dommes and slaves to watch and experience particular aspects of BDSM play to see how they respond, and to see whether it is an activity they would desire to try themselves without the risk of entering into a particular, potentially uncomfortable situation.

Female Led Poly homes are not without their challenges, however, and without good communication and delegation of roles, feelings can get hurt and emotional issues can arise. Poly homes are not for everyone, for many Dominant women and submissive men, a Poly home is the perfect way to fulfill their deepest desires in a community setting that offers support and the ability to create any fantasy imaginable.

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